When Change Is The Only Option
Have you ever been faced with a situation where your comfort zone has become uncomfortable and you know it’s time to make a change?
I know that change can be scary but sometimes we reach a place in our lives where change is the only option or this will at least be true if you know you don’t want to remain stagnant. It’s easy to resist growth because it’s painful but remember that the level of growth and the change you need is somewhere beyond your fears.
Change is a part of life and something to be embraced. I have been pushed to make a change early this year and through that experience, I have learned six things to consider when you have to make an important change in your life.
Don’t be emotional about it
Your mind will give you a whole lot of reasons the change you are about to make is not entirely necessary although you know deep within you that it’s time. Seek counsel with those close to you that you trust so they can give you a perspective that is not clouded by emotions.
Take the time you need
It’s crucial to think your decision through before taking the actual step. I take time to pray and seek guidance from God. I know that if it’s the right step to take at that moment, I’ll have peace within me.
It’s only for the better
Life is about learning and growing as an individual. The change you go through is necessary for your growth. It’s important to remember that it often takes experiencing the uncomfortable for us to be pushed to a higher level of growth and maturity. If you never reached places where you had to find new ways of doing things, you definitely wouldn’t be where you are today.
Maintain a positive attitude
It’s hard to stay positive when you are going through unfamiliar circumstances. You might feel and wonder whether the entire transition is necessary. Your attitude will determine whether you emerge on the other side as a better person or not.
Don’t expect people to understand
It’s time to start living for you. Making yourself a priority does not mean that you care less, it simply means that you are prioritizing your personal growth. It will often make those around you feel uncomfortable but remember that not everyone will understand your journey and that’s ok.
Commit to what you can manage
I’ve been one for giving so much of myself while not receiving the same care or support in return. It’s ok to give your time to others but not to a point where it compromises your happiness and obligations to you and your family.
Go ahead and make the change you’ve been dreading and you’ll have yourself to thank for the beautiful version of yourself that will emerge.
Love,
Muhluri
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